This is the eventz section. All events will be listed in this section as well as links to any promotional material Videos Pics and other media that we build from time to time, contests and giveaways.

To attend any event you must be registered and voice verified no exceptions! Addresses directions and other info about parties and events will only be given out to registered/verified members! It is suggested that you register in advance since all of our events are limited to the amount of guests.

Meet and Greetz

Meet and Greetz are held in a public location such as a bar, lounge or in warm weather could be held at a beach or other outdoor venue. It is a networking getting to know other members type event. You are responsible for any refreshments such as drinks food etc… From time to time there may be an after activity however that is up to your own discretion. We look at these as being more important than a sexual event/swing party since it gives everyone a chance to meet up and discuss future activities and basically have a good time amongst like minded adults. In all honesty we are more apt to create a slot for couples that attend meet and Greetz than for those that do not!

On the registration form we do as for a picture to be uploaded that way we can recognize you at a meet and greet. Your photo will never be shared with anyone else on or offline and it beats having everyone tie a purple bandana on their wrist!

Swing Parties

We at ESO Have a different take on swing parties! Our parties are for couples! Not single women and definitely not for single males!

We also do not believe in making you pay for the ability to play! We look at how parties are created and finance on the same level how a family would plan a get together all we ask is that everyone chip in for the cost of the room/s and bring a dish and or a bottle to be shared with all in attendance. In our experience total cost usually should not exceed $10-20 per person which sure as hell beats the $100 - $150 per couple that most swing clubs charge! ESO is not a business! It is a way for couples of color who swing to find a comfortable venue! Like you we have day jobs that pay the bills, This is strictly for pleasure and fun! If you want to support what we are doing buy the book, click a link or drop something in our paypal acct! But parties and events are meant to be fun!

WE do have rules for sexual events and these must be followed if only to insure the mutual respect for all in attendance! Break the rules you and your mate will be asked to leave… and you will probably not be asked to another ESO event.

1 No means no! We often have couples who might be experiencing their first swing event and constant pressuring could make them feel uncomfortable or make the experience bad for them! And on the other hand a couple may be exhausted and just need to catch a breather ! Never take it personal but never think that no means yes!

2 Condoms are a must! This is obvious and since no one is ever responsible to know who is with who! this is my wife, boyfriend, girlfriend, husband is not a valid excuse! Get caught uncovered and you will both be asked to leave!

3 No cell phones or cameras!  In the party! From time to time we will take what we like to call butt shots but when that is done there are no more cameras or cell phones allowed this is not done to keep you from taking pictures of your significant other but to protect yours and everyone else’s privacy. As far as taking a call? If you are a doctor or work for the nuclear regulation committee or even a secret agent you really do not belong at a swing party if your phone is going to be ringing all night long.

4 Rude or Mean Spirited Comments! For obvious reasons we will not tolerate this. Like we said in our book “if someone is not your cup of tea in a nightclub you do not have to dance with them! The same holds true at a swing party! So keep the rude comments to yourself or you will be asked to leave!

5 Illicit/illegal drugs are not allowed!  Some of us have jobs with zero tolerance and trace 420 could mean unemployment plus hotels are notorious for calling the cops! And I really do not think anyone wants to be dealing with some assholes bad trip! Plus you are supposed to drug and disease free anyways!

6 Arguments disagreements!  It happens for reasons even other than swinging it might be a rehash from a disagreement at home, at the end of the day people are human! However have the decency to excuse yourself and take it somewhere else! Or we will just ask you to leave!

7 Try to be on time! We like to have a comfortable hour or two before disrobing into something more agreeable to the nights activities. If you came late you now have to disrobe immediately which might prove to be stressful for you as well as those in attendance! Pus who wants to answer the door while fucking?

8 Never bring /invite someone that we have not confirmed via registration/voice verification  you probably are all going to have to leave!

9 What happens in the party stays in the party! It’s a really small world! Don’t do an Osama and blow up someone else’s spot!

10 No weapons of any kind! I don’t care if you are law enforcement keep it in your car but do not bring it into the party!

These are just the basics but the blanket common sense rule is always in effect

We are always looking for couples who are willing to help in the planning of events are in a situation where they might be able to even host an event! If you fall into either of those catagories do not hesitate to email us @ couplesexyblack@gmail.com or admin@ethnicswingers.

Questions? Ask em! admin@ethnicswingers.com