Blowjobs, Fellatio and Condoms!
This was a great question sent in from one of our readers a while back that although I had every intention to post (Damn you A.D.D.!) but we feel it may actually be a question on a few minds out there about oral sex and mandatory condom usage…
Thanx T
My boyfriend and I wanted to know about wearing condoms, I know at the parties everyone must wear one no exceptions but there is a grey area that we weren’t sure what happens when it comes to oral sex!
We know some people will and some won’t but does a man have to wear a condom when getting head? What about a woman who’s recieving how does that work? Should she have some dental dam on hand? Lol, sounds kinda stupid but the only stupid question is the one not asked!
We’ve never been in that situation in a party of this magnitude and I feel better asking now then to be in that situation and not know what to do!
We’ve done research on the subject and there is no clear answer if someone can or cannot recieve the big one (HIV/aids) through oral sex,we know you can get other little nasty bugs that way but I guess oral
sex without protection seems to be a subject rarely discussed!
What about kissing? Seems harmless but its kinda defeats the purpose if you kiss a man but put a condom on his penis to suck it or let him eat you out, no?
What’s your take and what happens at your parties when people want to get there lick n suck on? And please no politically correct answers just the straight up!
On a lighter note, if we do attend your next party HOW THE HELL DO I GET MY MAN TO WEAR A THONG?????? HELP (-:
The answer….
Hi T,
Thanks for the taking time to write and this is a great question.
Condoms are required for intercourse (vaginal and anal) at our parties.
Condoms are a great barrier for preventing transmission of stds and pregnancy.
All other activities (kissing, finger-play, oral) do put people at risk but at a much lower risk for transmission than intercourse.
We have further tried to reduce the risk of disease by having couples only parties. Most couples are monogamous and do not engage in sex with outside partners (with the exception of occasional swinging). But couples still tend to have less partners than the average single man or woman.
All in all, we want to play safe and we want everyone to be safe at our parties.
So in answer to your question we do not force the condom issue for oral activities.
Again, best case scenario everyone wear a biohazard suit! Just joking!
Oh, the thong thing? Just take him shopping to buy yours with the payback being you get to buy his…Honestly I have no clue on how to get you to proceed on that one and i am sure you are not the only woman with this problem right now lol. but if nothing else remind him it is mandatory…